While I wouldn’t strictly label us as Fat FIRE, my diligence in managing finances early in our marriage has set us up for the possibility of retiring or working part-time earlier than usual, probably between ages 45-50. I’m eager to escape the rat race as soon as possible. Here are some key lessons we’ve learned along the way:
Income tends to rise quickly in the early years of your career. To maintain your desired quality of life later on, it’s crucial to start saving a much larger percentage of your income early on than the typical 15%.
Lifestyle inflation and unexpected life transitions are real challenges that can eat into your ability to save. It’s important to be mindful of these factors and prioritize savings accordingly.
Compound interest is a powerful tool, and the earlier you start saving and investing, the more time your money has to grow.
Back in 2016, when our combined income was around $90k, we committed to saving 15% of our income for retirement, not including employer matches or mandatory pension contributions. This resulted in maxing out Roth IRAs, receiving a 4% match from my employer, and my wife contributing 12% into a pension system, totaling an effective savings rate of around 25-30% for retirement alone. Additionally, we saved aggressively for a house down payment and managed to purchase a home in 2018 for $160k with a $35k down payment on a 15-year fixed-rate mortgage at 3.25%. As our income increased, we continued living at the same quality of life to avoid lifestyle inflation and focused on paying off the house early, which we achieved in 2022.
By the time our combined income peaked at around $120k, and with my wife expecting our second child, I received a job opportunity with a salary of approximately $100k. We realized that with our intentional avoidance of lifestyle creep, we could comfortably live off my income alone and avoid childcare costs and logistical stress. With a recent raise, my current salary is around $110k.
My current employer contributes a generous 12% of salary to a SEP IRA, and we continue to max out our Roth IRAs and Family HSA. This brings our retirement savings rate back to around 30-35%. Additionally, we allocate $1000 total per month ($500 each) into 529 college savings accounts for our kids, as well as $400 per month into a high-yield savings account for miscellaneous savings. At 30 years old, we have roughly $300k in retirement savings, $280k in home equity, and other savings and assets totaling around $50k.
As we receive raises moving forward, we plan to enjoy life a bit more, especially as our kids reach ages where we can enjoy experiences together. While I’m not dead set on retiring at 50, I value having the mental freedom to leave any employer without hesitation. If my wife decides to return to work when the kids are older, we may have even more opportunities for FIRE or FAT FIRE. Looking ahead to age 60 with our current savings rate shows a comfortable, inflation-adjusted lifestyle, so we’ll see where life takes us.